An on-air personality and leading voice in emerging video blogging, Toke Makinwa, has described herself as “a proud snooper.” She advised other women to als0 snoop around their husbands.
Makinwa, who hit digital space on Wednesday with her latest blog, admitted that snooping was bad but that women were left with no option but to use it to monitor the level of their husbands’ faithfulness.
She urged women who said snooping was wrong to reconsider their position. “You should snoop.
People have found out that their houses are on fire; people have found out that they are married to other women’s husbands. I am a proud snooper and this is my advice for you,” she emphasised.
Makinwa said women passed through emotional pain while prying into their husband’s telephones. Yet, she advised, they had to do it because “men are wicked.”
“I am a proud snooper; this is me. When you snoop your boyfriend or your husband, it is like you are stealing from the pot. But what else should we do?” she asked.
The controversial relationship blogger wondered why men went to the extent of wrecking their wives’ lives by leaving traces of their extra-marital activities on their phones.
According to her, men are wicked and the earlier their spouses know this the better. To victims of extra-marital affairs, she advised, they should be courageous to dump men who would not love and be faithful to them.
In the 10-minte YouTube video, Makinwa took viewers through techniques they could use to monitor their partners, with a view to knowing their level of faithfulness.
When she blogged on the same issue two years ago, Makinwa said snooping had saved several women from wrong relationships. She noted that men also monitored their women, saying, “It is better women find out in the hard way.
“If you do not check, you will not know. It gives you opportunity to know, the kind of relationship you are into. Checking has saved lives, and I would rather have my life saved.”
She said the reason God gave women brain was so that they could think their way out of trouble.
“Some men are gold-diggers. If the lady you are with is not good for you, leave her and look for another one. The earlier women know the better for them,” she noted.
Fans of the bloggers had wondered why her knowledge in marital relationship could not help her to stop her husband from an extra-marital affair that put her marriage at a risk recently.
For several weeks earlier in the year, Makinwa and her husband, Maje Ayida, made headlines on blogs and soft-sell magazines. The husband reportedly impregnated another lady.
Makinwa eventually opened up on the controversy, saying her case was meant to strengthen other women who were passing through a similar experience. She said being a woman was tough.
“It is funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to bless you. I have been given a voice, a platform but I woke up one day and I found God, and with that came purpose.
“It is never about you. Sometimes you go through things not for you but for the people around you who need direction. It is tough being a woman, the pressure is real. You don’t have to be a victim; you can rise above it all. Do not let the society tell you otherwise. Be bold, be strong,” she said.
Her controversial position on snooping has stirred a controversy on blogs and other social media platforms.
Blogging on Thursday, one Pat said Makinwa knew there were other women competing with her; hence, she was able to withstand the challenge she faced.
If not for any other reason, according to Pat, snooping helps women to prepare for evil days.
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