LETTER RO SINGKE &MARRIED WOMEN FROM A SINGLE INDEPENDENT WOMAN.......

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 letter to single & married women from a single independent woman.


Yesterday, a single woman replied the open letter from a married woman. (read here). Now, an unmarried independent woman has something to say about both letters and she has a different point of view. Read below..
Dear Single and Married Ladies,
Thank you all for your letters, they have been quite enlightening & entertaining, nonetheless, extremely misleading.
I cannot speak for every lady in Nigeria but I surely refuse to stand by and let the two of you individuals speak for all ladies. I am currently unmarried but I do not fall under any of the categories of ladies that have spoken.
Yes I believe that some single ladies are to blame for this nasty trend of extramarital relationships. In the same vein I also believe that these men are also responsible for this. This is a 2-way street. No one person can achieve a relationship on their own.

I am of pretty high moral standard. I am no goody 2-shoes but I have my standards and principles. I do not date married men.  I do not accept money from men. There are many unmarried women like myself. We exist. We are not extinct. Young ladies and girls, please watch us, not these other species of women.

Married women, if your husband is cheating on you: your husband is to blame. You have to accept the fact that HE is the one who marriedyou and owes you loyalty. He swore to be with you and you alone. You insist that ‘single ladies’ should be independent but you also have to take a closer look at yourself. Are you independent? Do you collect money for credit, hair, food and everything else from your husband? If your husband were to embarrass you so much with his philandering, are you independent enough to leave him. If he were to leave you for a ‘single lady’ would you have to go back to your parents house?

Single ladies, I will never support a woman or even be categorized with any one who thinks it’s okay to succumb to the pressure of prostitution. You make it sound trendy but its not. If you are sleeping with a man because he buys you gifts and plane tickets, then you are a clear-cut prostitute. There are no 2 definitions for it.

Ladies do not get vicious. Ladies do not cut people with razor. Ladies do not do jazz or whatever. Ladies are respectable and respect other ladies.

Ladies, we have to have each other’s backs. We have to support each other and promote each other. Stop pouring sand in other people’s garri.

On another note, if you are being abused at home please speak up. If a man has ever forced you to commit sexual acts you did not consent to, please speak up. No do domestic violence. No to rape.

Signed
Unmarried, independent woman.

Source linda ikeji blog

THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU FIND OUT YOUR IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN.....

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7 Things to Do When You’re in Love with a Married Man

Julia MelkoShareTweet+ 1MailA relationship with a married man can bring real problems into your life. It can cause work problem or even ruin your carrier entirely if relations are with your boss or colleague. Not to mention bad reputation. This kind of relations may be fun but are they worth all the damage they can cause to your life? I would not call it the worst thing ever, but you need to think carefully whether you really want it.

1. Get to know him better

There is such kind of men who will try to make relations even if they are married, usually, with the help of lies about unhappy marriage. You must understand that nothing will make them divorce, and even if they do, will it be possible for you to trust them? Don’t answer their “feelings”, and they might just switch to another woman and let you see who they really are.Read also – 6 Signs You Are Dating a Married Man

2. Don’t dramatize the situation

This kind of relations happens in life quite often so there is no need to feel like your life is over. But it is not a Romeo and Juliet kind of forbidden love as well, and it is better to see the reality as it is. Try to amuse yourself, go out, meet different people and you might find just the right bachelor to match your idea of a perfect man.

3. Look on the bright side of the situation

You found an ideal man you always dreamt of, but unfortunately he is not single already. It makes you want to cry, but look on the bright side of the situation. Now you know what your man must be like. It is not the best easement, but it may help a little.

4. Don’t become “The Other Woman”

Sometimes you can find a guy who publicly acknowledges his marriage as fail, but don’t let him make you play along as you soon will find yourself accused in all the problems of his marriage and even got a reputation as a homewrecker. Just wait for him to settle his problems without you, and it might be of use.

5. He’s not an ideal man

You may think he is a prince Charming, but do you really know him that good? Everyone wants to make a good impression on the one he likes and this might be just the case. He may have habits you will not like when you get to know him better. You may find that any other guy is better, this one just unreachable what makes him more interesting to get. So why risk if you don’t even have an opportunity to know him good enough and can turn your attention to more suitable candidates?Read also – 8 Signs You are NOT Ready to Get Married

6. Avoid intimate communication

Overly intimate communication is not the best thing you need. It can cause you unnecessary troubles and entangled situations. It usually looks as if you are doing nothing bad but don’t let him think you will do anything for him. It will be better for you and can make him respect you even more. Or perhaps, it can make him find another woman to cheat his wife with.

7. Look for a reason

If you fancy a married guy it is not a big problem, unless it is become a habit. But if it happens all the time you need to think of reasons of it. Why do you prefer married ones?

 Is it because of competition or do you need to prove something? Or, you just don’t want stable relations, and marriage of your men makes it easier?If you ever experienced this kind of relationship and have useful information that may help others to understand the situation deeper, please do share it with us.

8 SIGNS YOU ARE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED !!!!!

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8 Signs You are NOT Ready to Get Married.

Julia MelkoShareTweet+ 1MailUnfortunately, nowadays we can find more divorce stories than romantic stories about marriage and love. One of the most obvious reasons why couples feel trapped or suffocated in their marriage and why marriages break is because they were not ready for it. There is nothing more frightening than tying the knot with a partner when you’re not ready. Check out a few signs that you are not ready for marriage.

1. You are still not over your Ex

This is one of the signs you shouldn’t get married. If you are still not over your ex, it’s not the right time even for dating someone, not to mention marriage. Give yourself time to get over the past. Once you are, you’ll become wiser and stronger to get into new relationship.

2. You and your partner are not financially stable

Marriage is not only two people coming together to spend their whole life happy with each other. Entering into marriage is a big responsibility. If you and your partner are financially stable, your wedlock will be a day of celebration. If you are not, it will be a big financial drain. Moreover, expenses increase once you get married. It’s better to wait until you’re financially stable before getting married.

3. You want the wedding, not the marriage

A wedding is the inauguration or celebration of something beautiful and holy called wedlock. And while a wedding lasts only one day, marriage lasts for the rest of your life. So it is necessary to think more about your marriage than your wedding. Most women are obsessed with the wedding part, not the marriage part, and only after the celebration they realize what the marriage is all about.

4. You two are not sexually compatible

Many people think that sex is not a big deal, but it is very important, especially in a marriage. Sexual incompatibility can create serious problems in your relationship and lead to infidelity. No matter whether he is the best man in the world, and has the potential to be the best father and best husband, if the sex sucks, you’re going to regret marrying him.

5. You are not ready to be a parent

Sooner or later, parenthood follows a marriage. It is necessary to be both mentally and physically prepared to have children and be ready to look after them. Otherwise, if you have children later and are not prepared for it, it can ruin your relationship with your partner. Think twice before getting married. Will you be able to raise your kids with care and love when you have them?

6. You can’t stay faithful

Trust in marriage is one of the most significant parts of your commitment. Anything may be forgiven, except infidelity. Breaking your partner’s trust is probably the worst thing you can do to him, especially after you’re married him. If you feel the urge to cheat on your partner, then you’re either not with the right person or you’re not ready for marriage. Find out the reason before entering into marriage.

7. You just met him recently

It’s hard to judge a person when you just meet him. It takes time to understand a person. And marrying someone you barely know is like walking blindly on a bridge without edges. Even if you consider him to be Mr. Right, wait for a while, enjoy your dating phase and get to know him better. Once you’re done with all of this, you can think about marriage.

8. You are not in love anymore

Finally, if you don’t feel love for the person you’re planning to marry, then how are you going to love him for the rest of your life?

Being married to a person you don’t love will not only make your life unhappy, but you’ll also never be able to keep your partner happy. Marry a person you really love.I hope these signs will help you to take the right decision.

 Remember, being married should make you happy. And you should also be emotionally, mentally and physically ready for it. Do you have something to add? Share your thoughts, please!

DRAKE GETS ASSAULTED IN DUBAI........

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Check this out guys :DRAKE ASSAULTED IN DUBAI NIGHTCLUB

 Drake was manhandled at a club in Dubai, which triggered a melee that put the aggressor where he belongs ... on the ground.Drake and his crew were at Movida nightclub Saturday night, along with a huge crowd ... Dubai does it big.

Watch the video closely ... you'll see the guy grab the back of Drake's head and shove it down.Drake is clearly pissed off, and gives the guy a death stare.

But club security jumps in and gets the job done STAT.BTW, Drake was in the country as a guest of the royal family. It's unclear if members of the family were on hand when Drake was assaulted.

CHRIS BROWN WORST NIGHTMARE !!!!!

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Chris Brown’s Worst Nightmare: Karrueche Tran Will Tell All In OWN Interview

Karrueche plans on revealing everything about her relationship with Chris, including his new baby and what happened between him and Rihanna, during her OWN interview with spiritual life coach Iyanla Vanzant, HollywoodLife.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned. Don’t miss it!

Chris Brown, 25, is probably freaking out right now because his ex-girlfriend, Karrueche Tran, who dumped him after finding out he cheated on her and impregnated another woman, is doing an interview with spiritual life coach Iyanla Vanzant on OWN. Karrueche, 26, doesn’t plan on holding anything back — all topics are on the table!

KYLIE JENNER MOM KRIS IS HELPING HER BECOME A BIGGER SEX SYMBOL THAN.....

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Check this out; Kylie Jenner: How Kris Is Helping Her Become A Bigger Sex Symbol Than Kendall

Kylie Jenner’s sexy new image may be shocking to some, but Kris Jenner is supporting her daughter’s transformation. In fact, the Kardashian matriarch has a long-term plan for Kylie to become a bona fide sex symbol, HollywoodLife.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned.

Kylie Jenner‘s recent bondage bikini photo shoot, as well as her ongoing racy Instagram pics, are all part ofKris Jenner‘s long-term, master plan for the 17-year-oldKeeping Up with the Kardashians star to become a bigger sex symbol than her sisters, once she gets a little older.

what do you think guys ?

PATRICK SCHWARZENEGGER BEDS MILEY CYRUS FOR A SECOND CHANCE.....

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Patrick Schwarzenegger’s Begging Miley Cyrus For A Second Chance

Following their sudden breakup, Patrick is begging Miley to forgive him and take him back! Will she? HollywoodLife.com has the EXCLUSIVE details on whether Miley’s going to give Patrick a second chance.

Miley Cyrus, 22,  and Patrick Schwarzenegger, 21, split after photos, which show Patrick getting cozy with another woman during Spring Break in Cabo, emerged.


Ever since Miley kicked Patrick to the curb, however, he’s been begging and pleading with her to take him back, HollywoodLife.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned. Is there a chance she’ll forgive him and decide to reconcile? Here’s what we know.

THEY HER PRESSURING ME TO FREE HARDEN CRIMINALS SAYS AMAECHI RIVERS.....

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Amaechi Pressurising Me To Free Hardened Criminals – Rivers .

The Commissioner of the Rivers State Police Command, Dan Bature has said that Governor Chibuike Amaechi has being raising false alarm against the Command because he refused to bow to pressure to release hardened criminals involved in heinous cases of murder, deadly cult activities, unlawful possession of firearms, kidnappings and sundry acts of lawlessness that ordinarily would have been charged to court but for the industrial action of the Rivers state judiciary.

In a strongly worded press statement signed by the CP Dan Bature, he said: “It is strongly believed that the vituperations are frustrating signs of the Government’s inability to pressure the Command to release hardened criminals involved heinous cases of murder, deadly cult activities, unlawful firearms possession, kidnappings and sundry acts of lawlessness that ordinarily would have been charged to court but for the industrial action of the Rivers State Judiciary”.

The CP said he has restrained himself from joining issues with the state governor but is once again constraint to respond to what he called “the spurious and wispy allegations against it and false alarm raised by His Excellency, Rt Hon. Chibuike R. Amaechi, the Executive Governor of Rivers State, to the effect that the Command exposes Hon. Dakuku Peterside, the Rivers State’s All Progressives Congress (APC) gubernatorial candidate to danger by withdrawing policemen attached to him, unsubstantiated killings and plan to arrest supporters of his party”.

He denied ever withdrawing the police cover to Dakuku Peterside as alleged by the Governor.


He said that it is on record that since he assumed duty as the Commissioner of Police six months ago, he has remained focused and committed to performing my constitutional duties and responsibilities of protecting lives and property amongst others.

 And has refused to be provoked or drawn in unnecessary responses to the avalanche of unsubstantiated allegations, in most cases wild imaginations that are predicated in falsehood that seem to be the penchant of the State Government.Bature said he do not intend to dignify the false alarms raised in the recent press briefing by the State Government, but it is necessary to put records straight.

On the recent redeployment of C4i Policemen from Hon. Dakuku Peterside a few days after the Rivers PDP called for its disbandment on allegation that it has been engaged in terror activities, Bature explained that the C4i unit were redeployed to their traditional duties of fighting violent crimes and their immediate replacement with the elite Special Protection Unit (SPU) has now been attributed to withdrawal of the policemen attached to him.

He dismissed claimed by Amaechi that APC supporters were politically assassinated or hounded to prison at the behest of the state PDP.

He wondered why cases of cultists’ related clashes that sometimes resulted in deaths have suddenly been attributed to killing of political party supporters.The CP said the alleged killing of seven supporters of a political party is not only unfounded as the Command has not received such report.He also wondered “arrests made on cases of unlawful possession of firearms, robbery, cultism and murder are now attributed to politics.

What a mathematical wonder! Six suspects arrested and charged to court for unlawful possessions of firearms have now become over 400 supporters of a political party in our custody”.He debunked the allegation of the purported plan to arrest 307 leaders of a political party is nothing but a ruse to whip up public sympathy.

Bature said the Command has no plan to arbitrarily arrest anybody.But that anyone who is not planning to cause or foster violence or breach of public peace has no cause to fear or raise false alarm.

He cautioned that on security matters, “we should be mindful of the fact that security issues are not matters for comical entertainment”.

The CP said the Command remains focused in its mandate to serve and protect the people and overall interest of the State. No amount of distractions would deter us from performing our constitutional assigned roles, please.

http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2015/03/18/amaechi-pressurising-me-to-free-hardened-criminals-rivers-cp/

JEGA SAYS INEC ARE READY FOR NEXT WEEK GENERAL ELECTION .....

INEC Ready For Next Week's General Elections - Jega .

Chairman of the Independent National Electoral Commission, Prof Attahiru Jega says the electoral body is ready to conduct the general elections which starts next week Saturday March 28th.

At a meeting with some Civil Society bodies in Abuja today, Prof Jega said the time provided by the postponement has helped the commission articulate its plan for the conduct of a successful election"We believe very strongly that the period of the extension has been put to good use and it has added value and obviously we would be able to do a much better election and it also enforced our belief that the elections for 2015 will be remarkably better than the 2011 elections and in fact we believe it will be the best election in Nigeria's history" he said.

He however raised concerns over the security of INEC staffs and NYSC members who would be working during the election days"Clearly security remains an issue of concern particularly securing the staff of INEC as they are being deployed or as they are conducting the elections and also protecting the election environment" he said.

A YOUNG GIRL STABS HER BOYFRIEND AT ABEOKUTA. .......

Girl Stabs Boyfriend To Death At DS ICT Polytechnic Abeokuta (Graphic Photo) .

 On Mar 18A young man,Moses Eric was stabbed to death by his girlfriend yesterday at the DS ICT polytechnic in Abeokuta, Ogun state.

Moses and his girlfriend reportedly had a quarrel and in the process of arguing, the girl dashed to her room, returned with a knife and stabbed the late Moses in his chest.From what i gathered, the girl is already in custody.

http://itsdumebi.com/exclusive-photos-girl-stabs-boyfriend-to-death-in-ict-polytechnic-abeokuta/

GRAPHIC PHOTO: AISHA MUSTAPHA'S BODY FOUND .......

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Aisha Mustapha's Body After She Was Found (Graphic Photo)

I just got this photo of the late Aisha...May her killer know no peace!UPDATED STORY : I got more details on her death from an eyewitness who revealed that the murder was committed by a neighbour, a married man she reportedly got pregnant for.


The guy who also resides in the estate argued with her and threatened her after she said she will tell his wife about the pregnancy she had for him.


The man got angry after she said she will report to his wife and struggle ensued. Moments later, she ran out of the house with scars all over her body, and while running she fell into the gutter.


when she was found by neighbors , She was still breathing so she was rushed to a specialist hospital along Ogudu road then to the General Hospital in Gbagada, but no one would admit her without a police report, that was when she was taken to the police station. it was there she gave up the ghost.The murder weapon, a bloodied knife, was reportedly seen but later got missing.

The suspect is currently being detained at the Area 'f' police station in the estate.

http://itsdumebi.com/murdered-silverbird-staff-graphic-photo-of-aisha-mustaphas-body-after-it-was-found

PROFESSOR ABDULAHI'S CAR WAS SHOT BY SOLDIERS FOR OVERTAKING THEIR CONVOY IN BAUCHI....

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Soldiers Shoot At Professor Abdulahi's Car For Overtaking Their Convoy In Bauchi.

Prof Ango Abdullahi Shot In BauchiVanguard gathered that the former Vice Chancellor of Ahmadu Bello University (ABU), Zaria, attacked his car as soldiers shot at the car as his driver overtook a military convoy.

Narrating what happened to newsmen in Bauchi yesterday, Professor Abdullahi said he was on his way for an official assignment at Bauchi State University, Gadau, where he is the chairman of the university’s governing council.“It was in the morning as I was travelling in my official car with my driver.

 I was going to Gadau for a meeting. We had just passed the Awala Hotel roundabout when I saw a military convoy moving very slowly.“I was trying to catch up for the meeting, so my driver overtook the military convoy.

The next thing I knew they opened fire at us, with bullets were sprayed on the car.“The bullets damaged the engine of the car, damaged the car that we had to park by the road side. The soldiers came out and were shouting angrily at us. “


They were demanding to know why we wanted to overtake them, asking if we didn’t know that the soldiers were exporting sensitive materials,” he said.According to him, “they just left us there and continued their movement. I have never seen such a reckless act.


“I called the Commissioner for Higher Education and told him. The Commissioner for Higher Education called the security agencies chiefs to inform them of what happened.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/03/prof-ango-abdullahi-shot-in-bauchi

BASKET MOUTH BUYS BRAND NEW RIDE WORTH #26 MILLION.......

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basket mouth Buys Brand New N26 Million Lexus 570 (Photo)

Comedian Basketmouth just bought himself a brand 2015 Lexus 570 SUV worth a whopping N26m.

His friend and colleague Bovi shared a pic of the car on instagram and wrote "Just got back from the naming ceremony of@basketmouth new baby.

 We named her Aunty Maria#2015model #tearrubber #talentmoney. Congrats to Basket mouth.

https://instagram.com/p/0X5-zWJRNI

WHITE HOUSE RECEIVES ENVELOPE FILLED WITH CYANIDE........

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White House Receives Envelope Filled with Cyanide

An envelope sent to the White House earlier this week has tested positive for cyanide, the Secret Service announced on Tuesday.According to them, on Monday, an envelope containing an 'unknown milky substance, in a container wrapped in a plastic bag,' showed up at the White House Mail Screening Facility.

Though initial biological testing yielded negative results, chemical testing returned 'presumptive positive' for cyanide on Tuesday.

Secret Service spokesman Brian Leary in a statement to CNN said the sample was transported to another facility to confirm the results and that the Secret Service will have no further comment because the investigation is ongoing.

There were no injuries or exposure concerns for the person at the mail sorting facility who opened the letter, added a law enforcement official.

An alert identified the return address on the envelope as that of a man with a previous history of incidents with the Secret Service dating back to 1995, Intercept reports.

The man allegedly once sent a package to the White House covered in feces and urine. In a 2012 incident, the man sent a package to the White House containing mini alcoholic beverages.

10 THINGS GUYS DO THAT MAKES LADIES TURN THEM INTO MAGA (FOOLS)

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10 Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Turn Them Into Maga.

 On Mar 18Almost every lady has a corresponding maga because an average Naija guy is a potential magaNo matter how smart you are , you may still come across those money-grubbing girls that would go to any length to grub every last kobo in your pocket.


We do not have all day, let's get to business Now grab your yoyo bitters and pop-corn, relax and ready meticulously 10 Things Guys Do That Make Ladies Turn Them Into Maga


1. Desperation For Sex When you show too much desperation for sex gratification, you are on a path to maga zone, a zone which makes girls see you as their source of finance. Many ladies use sex as a leverage to cash in on unsuspected guys, force you to make solemn promises especially when you exhibit too much desperation. I could recall when a friend living next to my apartment invited a lady all the way from Lagos to Ado-Ekiti. The next morning he told me he had to prostrate and started making solemn promises before the lady gave in, and I was like, what height of desperation is that?


 2. Refusing To Back Off Some dudes are hell bent even when a lady outrightly tells then she's not interested. In this scenario, there are two things involved: firstly, some guys think that when a lady refuse them, they can use money and gift to get the lady into liking them. By so doing, the lady will see that as an opportunity to bleed the guy in question dry.Secondly, having told you on many occasions that she feels nothing for you and you are adamant to back off. Since her stalker is making last-ditch attempts to get her, she will resort to put and fleece you in the maga zone.


3. Sending Recharge Quickly It has become everyday disposition of average Nigerian girls to request recharge card from guys. A good number of them use various excuses (such as I'm broke and I need to call a nephew of my uncle's sister cousin brother of my father's uncle, I'm sick and I need recharge card, as if it were drugs etc) to get guys to send them recharge card. Don't get it twisted, there's actually nothing wrong sending recharge card to a lady in need, but some ladies take advantage of that to make you look mumu.

 You got to meet a lady and you are already sending her recharge card the first week just because you want to get the key to her heart, my brother, you are most likely to get into the maga list.

4. Being Overly Caring Being caring is very good but one should do it with caution or else, you might be taken for granted. I have once overheard a lady called a dude on the phone, pretended she was ill and requested for money. Immediately she dropped the call, her friends said they doubt if the guy would send the money. I was so shocked when she said " Dem no born am well make e no send am" waaaaaaaaaat ? !!! Is it a crime to be overly caring to ladies ?

 5. Notice Me Attitude Many guys become a "YES" person because they want to impress lady. The truth is, every lady seeks financial security but no lady wants to marry a fool. Some dudes would always want to do things so that a lady would not see them as broke dudes, I'm sorry if you are the 'I-WANT-TO-IMPRESS' type, then your chances of being magad is very high

6 Forcing Yourself On Her The best thing that can ever happen to you is when a lady has been fantacizing about you, but when a lady does not feel you at all and you are making last-ditch effort to get her. You are most likely to end up in the maga zone

7. Doing What You Are Not Capable Of The best way to know if a lady likes you naturally is when you try to appear broke. Some would however drift away soon as they know the wealth of your pocket while some would wait; if you are flaunting your gadget(s) and doing what you are not capable of, then she's most likely to turn you into a maga.

8. Being Shy To Say NO Personally, I'm never ashamed to say I don't have so I don't know why some guys are so ashamed to tell a lady they don't have.

 I have seen a case when a dude took a lady to an eatery and after spending all he had, he gave her money for cab and trekked home (miles away).

I guess he was ashamed to tell the lady he wasn't with enough cash

9. Boasting About Your Finances Money itself makes noise so I see no reason why you should boast about your family, or bank account.

When you are caught doing this, then it's just one of the things we are talking about10 Overhyping A Lady When you overhype a lady, she sees herself like the queen of England and expects you to start running helter skelter when she demands from youWritten by: Tosyne2much

Source:http://tosyne2much.blogspot.com/2015/03/10-things-guys-do-that-make-ladies-maga.html

DON'T BE A HOE' CHRIS BROWN TELLS KARRUECHE OUT OF ANGER.....

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Chris Brown Tells Karrueche ''Don't be a Hoe out of Anger'' after She Posts Racy Photo

Chris Brown got another woman pregnant, his now ex-girlfriend Karrueche publicly dumped him! Karrueche posted this ass-tastic beach photo on her IG page and Breezy couldn’t help but leave a comment condemning her.  Jealous much breezy hehhehe !!!!

What do you think guys ?

ABIA COMMISSIONER ALLEGEDLY RAPES 11 YEAR OLD HOUSEMAID TO DEATH.....

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Abia Commissioner Allegedly Rapes 11 Year Old Housemaid To Death.

Controversy surrounding the death of a minor, identified as Anwulika Nathan (an 11year old girl) from Owo-Ahia Afor in Obingwa Local Government Area of Abia State in the house of her guardian has been reportedly causing ripples in the community.

Awnulika, the last female child of Mr. Chinenye Nathan, a civil servant in the Abia State civil service was said to be living with one of the Commissioners in the Abia State Oil Producing Areas Development Commissions (ASOPADEC) family as their house help.

It was gathered that the commissioner after raping the girl to coma rushed her to New Era Hospital, along Niger road and some distance from Amuzukwu Primary and Secondary Schools were she later died.

Sources who confirmed that the people of Owo-Ahia Afor were pained over the girl’s death said that they were going to stop at nothing in deploying every measure to see that they get to the root of the matter.

Another source from the community who pleaded anonymity alleged that their daughter was raped to death by the ASOPADEC commissioner.

The source who confirmed that the police were already investigating the matter also accused the police of trying to sweep the matter under the carpet owing the “powerful” nature of the commissioner in the state.

According to the source “Sometimes last week, we got a phone that Anurika Nathan, 11year old from Owu Ahia Afor, who is living with one of the ASOPADEC Commissioners was raped to death.

“When we got to Umuahia, they were at the Federal Medical Centre (FMC), Umuahia. On reaching there, we saw her corpse in an ambulance covered with a T-Shirt with the inscription. One side of her body was open and we saw a lot of bruises on her knees, blood was coming out from her mouth and even from her private part.


“After we waited for about an hour at the hospital, the young man (Commissioner) arrived with his official car and with the father of the deceased.

 They came in with a letter from New Era hospital, Umuahia stating the doctor’s report.“After a while, the Commissioner attempted to leave, but the woman IPO refused him going, insisting he must follow her to the police station (CPS, Umuahia).

The man insisted he was going nowhere as he brandished an identity card showing the police woman that he is a Hon. Commissioner but the police woman stood her ground that he must go to the police station with her.

“It was at that point that so many people gathered and with the assistance of the crowd, he was taken to the police station by keke after his driver refused to drive the car further.“

Before they left for the police station, there was a melo-drama at the hospital premises when the said Commissioner could not pay the ambulance driver for the services he rendered, but for the driver’s threat to dump the girl’s corpse into his own official car he (commissioner) was forced to pay the ambulance man”.

Continuing, the source added, “Before this time, the wife of the commissioner who we understand works in the same office with the father of the Anwulika was crying and when asked why she was crying, she said that prior to that incident, the girl went to school and came back from school with bruises and before they could take her to the hospital, she died in the process, adding that “from the hospital, we went to the police station and they tried to bail him (commissioner) out that day, but it was not possible.


 Unfortunately, the girl was somehow related to prominent man in Abia government and I believe if not for this, from the way things had been going, the man could have been off the hook.“But of the man’s (commissioner) position in government, we (relations and families of the victim) are afraid that even the police would compromise dropping the matter.

“We were able to come to the conclusion that the commissioner raped our sister to death because from the autopsy conducted, the cause of death was established to be rape.“Anwulika was living with the commissioner, she was his housemaid and he took her in January this year.

It is not clear whether the girl died in the man’s house or at the hospital, but all we know is that the man took her to New Era hospital in his car but later brought her down to FMC in an ambulance and at FMC medics there tried to ascertain the cause of the death of the girl, considering the bruises she had her knees and blood that was gushing from her mouth and private part.“What we are calling for is for justice to prevail.

 The autopsy had been done at FMC which was confirmed at the CPS that the girl died as a result of rape.

”http://thenationonlineng.net/new/11year-old-housemaid-raped-to-death-in-abia-state/

KARRUECHE TRAN '' I KICKED OPRAH'S PEOPLE OUT OF MY HOUSE'' .....

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KARRUECHE TRAN I KICKED OPRAH'S PEOPLE OUT OF

MY HOUSE

34 Minutes Ago EXCLUSIVE{{asset-0}}Karrueche Tran kicked the OWN Network out of her home ... because she felt the interviewer was passing judgment on her for her relationship with Chris Brown.

We're told Tran sat down at her house with Iyanla Vanzant for the interview. Tran says producers promised it would be "positive."Things went south when Tran was asked about her relationship with Brown.


Vanzant asked if she slept with Chris from the get-go because he was a superstar. When she explained they didn't sleep together until months after they met, she claims the interviewer didn't believe her and kept pressing.Vanzant also grilled Karrueche about her decision to date Chris in the wake of beating Rihanna.

 She responded that everyone deserved a second chance. The interviewer then challenged Karrueche, saying Chris had cheated on her but she still took him back.At that point ... Karrueche's manager kicked Vanzant and the OWN crew out of her house.


A couple of hours passed, everyone calmed down and the OWN people were invited back in to complete the chitchat.The special will air on OWN later this month.

What do you think  guy ?

CULTISTS SHOT A MAN DEAD LAST NIGHT IN UNILAG........

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Photos: Young man shot dead by suspected cultists in UNILAG last night

A young man, whose identity has not been revealed yet, was shot dead last night around 10pm at the University of Lagos Amphitheatre by suspected cult members. The school is yet to also confirm if he was a student. There's a pic of the slain man after the cut...hoping to get more details later...

IBINABO FIBERISIMA SAYS 'I REMAIN THE PRESIDENT OF AGN'..........

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'I remain the President of AGN' - Ibinabo Fiberisima.

Ibinabo Fiberisima-Egbuka says she remains the president of the Actors Guild of Nigeria despite a Lagos High court ruling on March 16th nullifying her October 2014 re-election. Ibinabo said she will be appealing the judgement and until her appeal is heard, she remains the President of the Guild.
"People have been calling me on the phone to say that Emeka Ike is the new president of the AGN. But this is not true. The court did not say that he is now president. It said there was a status quo that forbade us from holding elections. We are appealing that because we cannot wait four whole years for the court’s judgement on that issue. I remain president of the guild till my appeal is heard" she told Punch

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